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As mentioned in my previous blog, to experience a successful dating life and eventual marriage, Christian singles need to first understand the divine purposes of marriage.In our book, we discuss how the enemy has ravaged our culture and erected many obstacles, fears, mindsets and wrong beliefs about marriage and even, dating, so that we’ve become messed up around this thing called lifelong marriage.Here’s two ways of discipling the earth—first, by reaching the lost and teaching them God’s ways; and, second, by reproducing natural children and teaching them God’s ways. Unfortunately, Christians are losing out dramatically to other religions in the world in this “birth-rate evangelism.” So, family is a serious part of our call, of God’s commission for us to extend His kingdom—He wants us to raise godly natural, and spiritual, children.The fifth and last purpose of marriage I want to mention is this…Dating with a trajectory towards marriage doesn’t mean you only date one person ever. So, if you choose not to get coffee or watch a movie with the opposite sex, then whatever. The ultimate purpose of marriage is sanctification (becoming like God). If you have no idea what values are important to you in a future spouse, exit the road to marriage at the next off ramp. That would be awesome, but it’s not always realistic. If you are a Christian, God isn’t a piece of your pie. Why date someone who doesn’t even have God as a piece of the pie? Pull over at the closest gas station and decide what you want in a future spouse. Your list is designed to give you a framework for dating, not be a checklist for it. Your heart and the holiness of marriage are too important to flippantly give away because you are frustrated, impatient, or settling. We’re called to share His good news, disciple all people and extend His kingdom. Many singles don’t have this purpose in mind when dating. If you are choosing a mate based on whether they meet some items on your list, make you feel good, is someone you’ve got lots in common with, or who you think is “hot,” you’re completely missed God’s plan.

If you aren’t ready for marriage, or if you do not want to get married, you are not sinning.Most importantly, guidelines and principles for dating will transform lives and shape eternities. The brokenness you see in yourself and the brokenness you experience from your spouse point both of you to the only perfect one, God. When you pull the trigger, these balls spread over a large range, increasing the chance you hit the target. Dating with a trajectory towards marriage means dating with a purpose. Enter Eve, pro-creation, and marriage (not necessarily in that order). And the most intimate community on earth is the relationship you will have with your spouse. Disclaimer: If you are single (or if you’re married), steward your time well. “Sex before marriage is bad.” This was the extent of my understanding of Christian dating as a teenager and young adult. But understand purity begins with the mind and heart. If you aren’t ready to date, don’t allow the cultural pressure to override God’s plan. I know too many men and women who refused to listen to people around them, and their prideful arrogance resulted in a failed marriage. Find men and women you trust, and allow them to speak into your relationship.

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