Dating a guy who lives with his ex
We see each other when we can as we are both busy with 2 jobs. I get along with all of his friends…they actually make me feel special.
I have met his brother and his family and love them.
Most of them didn’t pay him too much attention to him.
If that’s the case, then, yes, it sounds to me like you need to have a come-to-Jesus meeting with your bachelor boyfriend and let him know your vision of the future. If I was the OP I would start dating others as soon as I had the “come to Jesus” talk with my boyfriend and it didn’t look like we were on the same page.
While there’s a possibility that he loves you enough to reconsider how he’s lived his entire life, the most likely answer you’re going to get is what you already know from his actions:“I love you. I would still date him if I wanted to, but I would start dating others that had more potential of what I wanted for my long term plans.
You can tell a lot about a guy by the way he talks about a past girlfriend.
If he says something like, “I don’t think she ever really loved me,” he’s still hurt by how the relationship ended and most definitely not over it.